Tips for How to be a Happy Couple - Relationship advices

To be a happy couple isn't easy, but the learning about it is quite simple. First, you have to know about what love is. And the second, you must practice it consistently. 

1. What Love is? 

Love is not about what you take or get. Love is about something you give with nothing to lose. Love is give away something better with nothing to lose. Just give away without hoping in return. If you love, you should happy when you give. Don't worry about the return that you'll get, because what you give is what you get. If you give love, you will get love. If you give something bad, you will get something bad too. Some people say it as karma. But I say it what you give is what you get. 

If you give something good for your couple then you ask for a return for it to yourself, it seem you sell something & and you get the profit. This is not a good happy couple practice. 

2. Practice Love: Love Your Self, Your Couple, and Your God 

Love your self first before you love somebody else. If you love yourself, you will do & take the entire good thing for you. And also, you will leave anything that useless for you. If it is hard for you to love yourself, ask for a list of things people like about you and make a list of the things you like about yourself. Listen someone tells you something about yourself that makes you feel good, and remember it. If hearing what people like about you is hard, ask your friends to write it down for you, or leave it on your voice mail, and save it so you can read & listen to it over and over again. If you feel bad, just go back to it as many times as you can. It will help you to love yourself. 

Then, love your couple. If you love your couple, think about what you should do to give the best for your couple & family. If your couple hurt you, ask your self first, what did you do that make your couple hurt you? Then, ask your self, what should you do to solve this problem? If you have do the best but it didn't work, the reason is usually only one of two: 

- There is something that you don't know what your husband need. So, your effort doesn't meet with him/her. 

- Oftenly, people forget about their comfort/blessing when they are close to it. They will feel it worth when they lose it. For example, every morning you prepare your husband's breakfast, coffee, & coat. But when you are not in home for a reason & cannot prepare your husband's needed, your husband will feel so worth you are. 

After all, realize that you & your couple is only a human being who can become different or die as long time goes. For example, now, he is a handsome man, in the future, he becomes an old man and he isn't a handsome man again. So, what you should do is love God, and God will love you. God bless you. 

Adi is a happy couples [http://www.couple-therapy.info/happy_couple_love_trilogy.html] writer on couples therapy [http://www.couple-therapy.info]. 

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